With his amazing knack for knowing names, his meticulous "towel art" and affable smile, Paul greets you at the door with genuine warmth and makes it his personal mission for your evening to be everything you hoped for (and more!) Whether it's putting wood in your stove or an extra playmate in your room, he's the go-to guy for all your needs, wants and wishes. Here's what Paul had to say about the crazy world of being the maitre d' of the sauna.
SNM: What's the most important aspect of being the sauna Maitre d' ?
PG: Making sure that everyone who comes here is treated equally and respectfully. Making sure they have a good time and want to come back.
SNM: How long have you been around?
PG: Since the late 80's after a bad breakup. At first I only came intermittently and I didn't see Richard that much because he was traveling a lot and Adrien was running things. Adrien and I bonded right away. After that I was pretty much a regular every week or so. It's been about three years now since I learned the ropes from Richard about taking care of the stoves and the customers. Now I'm the bona fide sauna bitch. I say that proudly.
SNM: Are things different now from back in the 80's?
PG: Absolutely. Richard's philosophy of tolerance and respect is the same, but there's much more nudity than before. It was a family place back then, and people were wrapped up in towels and there were kids at times.
SNM: Are people's attitudes different now?
PG: Yes. Even though the first customers here in the 80's were counter culture and hippies, they were pretty granola. Lots of bush, it was before the shaved landing strip era. There was a sensual undertone, both straight and gay, but nothing was overt. There's been a shift in people's attitudes and behavior since then. Now people are more open, willing to experiment, and they're a lot more into social nudity.
SNM: What's in it for you?
PG: I'm here cuz I like social nudity. I feel part of it and I like to contribute. I'm grateful to Richard for providing this place and this is the best way I can show gratitude and say thank you for being here.
SNM: We understand that your nickname is Mr. Paul, the sauna booty daddy. How do you manage the constant conversation about all the hidden agendas?
PG: You have to watch body language, voice, inflection and body positioning as well as how they present themselves. The people who are adventuresome are more overt and open. You get a feel for it after a while. I've got a good handle on things. I'm a veteran of this place. I've been around a long time and seen a lot of people come and go but mainly I just love to see them come.
SNM: Any last words, what's the best part of the sauna?
PG: The ass, definitely!
SNM: Thank you very much, Mr. Paul.
PG: My pleasure. Thank you for having me.
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